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Today
is the first day of the lecture series. What I would like to
discuss with you is "the Buddhist Perspective on Life and
Destiny." Of all the issues that we have, we are most
concerned with those relating to us. Of all our concerns, the
biggest concern relates to our destiny. Each of us has a different
opinion on the question of destiny. Some people, when face to face
with hardship, will often complain bitterly about their ill fate.
Others believe in destiny and that our circumstances, be they good
or bad, are pre-determined. Some people accept their difficult
circumstances. Others are content with what they have; they are
optimists and live carefree lives. Regardless of whether we find
ourselves down in a rut or up in the stratosphere, we should not
be passive and just accept our destiny. We should build our
destiny. When we talk about the Buddhist perspective on life and
destiny, there are four areas to discuss.
I.
Why Does Destiny Exist?
Many
events in our lives can change our destinies. For some, their
lives are changed because of a certain person. For others, their
lives are turned around because of a dollar. There are some others
who took a different course in life because of an event. Even a
word or a thought can cause drastic changes in people’s lives.
The impetus, though trivial in itself, can cause tremendous
impact. It is like a pebble thrown into the sea. A pebble is
small, but the ripples it causes can permeate the entire surface.
Similarly, a person or a thought can generate vastly different
changes in one’s destiny.
A.
How a Person Can Change Another’s Destiny
Take
the example of San-kuei Wu of the Ming Dynasty. When he learned
that the rebel bandit Chih-ch’eng Li kidnapped his beautiful
mistress Yuan-yuan Chen Li, he was enraged and asked the tribe of
Manchus for assistance. He opened the gates of the Great Wall of
China and led the Manchus inside the country. Although he defeated
the bandits and reclaimed his mistress, his destiny was totally
changed, and he went down in history as a traitor. China once
again came under foreign rule; Chinese history was rewritten.
Edward VIII, the Duke of Windsor of England, abdicated his throne
for the love of Mrs. Simpson. In "forsaking his country for
the love of a woman," his life was completely changed. Mr.
Ling-fei Chou, the grandson of the famous Chinese author Hsun Lu,
fled China so that he could marry Ms. Ch’un-hua Chang of Taiwan.
In so doing, many opportunities were opened up, thereby
establishing a bright future for himself.
There
are countless examples of how lives are changed because of the
love for a certain person. Some parents sacrifice their entire
lifetimes for the love of their children. In China, there is the
legend of Mrs. Ch’un-e Wang who remained a widow for life to
raise her son. When her son became a successful government
official, she was able to enjoy the fruits of her success. Many
children also give up their futures to care for their aged
parents. In order to respect their parents?wishes, they put
aside their own ambitions, live out the rest of their lives
quietly, and forsake an otherwise promising career. During the
course of Chinese history, there were many loyal government
officials and soldiers who were willing to repay the favors of the
emperors and their lords by giving up their lives. During the
Warring States period, a warrior named Jang Yu wished to repay his
late lord Po Chih for understanding and giving him opportunities.
He swallowed charcoal to alter his voice, painted his body to
disguise himself, and assassinated Hsiang-tzu Chao, his late
lord’s enemy. Afterward he turned his sword on himself and died.
In history books there are also untold cases of women who make
tremendous sacrifices for the men they love; yet their lives ended
in tragedy because their lovers were of unsavory character. For
example, there was a woman named Hsiao-yu Huo; she was fiercely in
love with I-ch’ing Li and thought they would live happily ever
after. Little did she know that I-ch’ing Li would leave her one
day. Dear audience, is there someone who has made a significant
impact on your life? Maybe someone you love? Maybe someone you
hate? Destiny can change just because of one single person.
B.
How a Dollar Can Change One’s Destiny
A
dollar can also change our destinies. The legendary Henry Ford
left home at an early age to seek his own fortune. With the one
dollar his father gave him, he built an automobile empire. He
started the world famous Ford Motor Company and made a name for
himself in history.
There
is a story that during the Second World War, a young soldier saved
a woman from suicide by pulling her out of the water. Instead of
thanking him, the woman cursed the young soldier. After some
patient inquiry, the woman then told him her tragic life story. As
it turned out, her husband was framed and was sent to prison for
something he did not do. She was left alone and penniless to tend
to her husband’s sick parents and the three young children. To
buy medication for her sick mother, she pawned all her possessions
for a silver dollar. When it rains, it pours—she was taken in by
the pawn shop owner with a fake coin. She had no way out but to
die.
The
young soldier felt very sympathetic and said to her, "What a
tragic story. I have a silver dollar here; please take this to
take care of your family. Please give me the fake silver coin so
that others will not fall into the same plight."
Putting
away the fake coin into his pocket, the young soldier hurried on
to report to duty. In a fierce battle, he was struck in the chest.
The bullet hit and left a dent on the fake coin, and he was
spared. The young soldier clapped his hands and exclaimed,
"Well worth it! This coin is worth a million."
With
a thought of compassion, a dollar coin saved the woman and her
family. It also extended the young soldier’s life.
The
power of money, even as little as a dollar, is immense. There is a
saying, "A dollar can subdue a great warrior." For the
sake of money, some people are willing to break the law, creating
a lot of troubles for themselves. Many young adults today do not
know what it takes to earn a dollar. They are envious of the
glamour and success of others, but are unwilling to work for it.
They just want a "fast buck," and may even resort to all
kinds of crimes including theft, robbery, burglary, and murder.
Not only do they disrupt the safety and peace of society, they end
up in prisons or even lose their own lives. One such example is
Kao-hua Hsieh, the convicted killer who planted a bomb inside the
Ta T’ung department store. In contrast, there are also many
righteous people throughout history who would rather maintain
their moral standards than to bow to the power of money. Among
Chinese historic figures, Yuan-ming T’ao refused to kow-tow for
five Chinese pecks of rice (approximately thirteen pounds of rice
in total), and Lu Ch’ien, although completely destitute, would
not lower his moral standards to those of corrupt officials.
Money
can change people’s lives. As each one of us has varying views
of money, we use and handle money differently, resulting in many
drastically different circumstances and destinies.
C.
How an Event Can Change One’s Life
In
addition to people and money, events can also affect human
destiny. Edison invented the light bulb and became a world-famous
and well-respected inventor, As he "lit" up the world
for all human kind, he freed us from the torment and inconvenience
of darkness. Nobel discovered explosives. On one hand, how much
pain was levied on the human race due to misuses by certain power
mongers? On the other hand, the Nobel Prize has been a catalyst
for much social progress and advance in world civilization. How
much good has it bestowed upon us? Other similar events can have
equally unparalleled powers to bring forth both great blessings
and massive calamities.
The
past Prime Minister Tanaka of Japan fell from political pinnacle
to criminal indictment because of bribery. Although he was once
the most powerful politician in Japan, he was not above the law
and was sentenced to serve time in jail. In the United States, the
Watergate scandal unseated the late former President Nixon from
the most coveted position in the world. An event can bring us
extraordinary glories; it can also cause us deep embarrassment. We
should exercise caution!
I
have an unforgettable personal story, the events of which cemented
my devotion to the cause of Buddhism. Even when I recall the
incident today, I am moved and choked with emotions. I was brought
up in a temple and had always lived a life of bare necessities. I
had always been very healthy. However, when I was about seventeen
or eighteen years old, I fell very sick. I vomited and had
diarrhea. My life was in grave danger because I was unable to hold
down any food for almost a month or two. I did not know how it
happened, but somehow my master heard the news. He sent over half
a bowl of pickled vegetables. Using the economic standards of
today, there is nothing special about half a bowl of pickled
vegetables. In those times of impoverishment, those pickled
vegetables were like gourmet food. I can still remember how I was
filled with gratitude. My eyes welled up with tears as I finished
the half bowl of pickled vegetables. As I felt the unspoken love
and care of my master, I vowed to myself, "Master, to repay
your kindness, I will dedicate myself to promote Buddhism and to
spread the Dharma so that all sentient beings can be
benefited." That half bowl of pickled vegetables gave me
unending strength—my faith in Buddhism has been unmovable, and I
have been able to willingly deal with whatever hardships that have
come my way.
There
are countless examples of past venerable masters who changed their
destinies because of an event in their lives. The Sixth Patriarch
emerged out of his shell of ignorance while pounding rice. Master
Hsiang-yen Chih-hsien was enlightened while tilling the soil.
Countless Ch’an masters saw through the subtleties of Ch’an
teaching at the sight of flowers blossoming and wilting. Countless
Buddhists have achieved clear understanding at the sight of the
rising sun and of the moon. Countless traveling monastics
extinguished the flame of anger and hatred in their minds when
looking at the beautiful mountains and clear rivers. If we can
reflect on the events around us carefully, we may see them in a
totally different light.
D.
How a Word Can Change One’s Life
Before
becoming a monk, Ch’an Master Tan Hsia of the Tang Dynasty had
originally planned to travel to the capital for the national
examination. On the way there, he met a monk who advised him,
"Taking the examination for government positions can only
bring you worldly fame and fortune. You will be much better off
going to study Ch’an instead. You then may attain emancipation
from the mundane world." Hearing these words, he changed his
mind and went to the temple to become a monk and study Ch’an.
Eventually he became an eminent Ch’an master. These words acted
like the stroke of a club, waking him up from his worldly dreams
and opening up an entirely new world for him.
The
Buddha had two famous disciples, Sariputra and Maudgalyayana.
Before they became Buddhist monks, they were Brahman leaders. One
day, while they were meditating, a disciple of the Buddha by the
name of Asvajit passed by them during his alms round. He was
reciting to himself the verse the Buddha had taught him, "All
phenomena arise out of causes and conditions; all phenomena cease
due to causes and conditions. Lord Buddha, my great teacher, has
always taught thus." When Sariputra and Maudgalyayana heard
these words, they both felt as if they had just seen the first
light of the morning emerging from total darkness. At this moment,
they seemed to see through the world. From overhearing a single
verse, their wisdom sprouted, and they were able to understand the
truth of the universe. Dear audience, when you just heard the
verse, "All phenomena arise out of causes and conditions; all
phenomena cease due to causes and conditions," what do you
feel? To us, it may seem ordinary. To the two wise men, however,
it was an explosion. It was a key. It shattered all confusions and
it opened up the truth of the universe. When they heard those
words, they converted from Brahmanism to Buddhism. They became
disciples of the Buddha and attained the fruit of Arhatship.
Once,
someone asked the Ch’an master Chao-ch’u, "When the
universe is annihilated, does the body still exist?" The
Ch’an master nonchalantly replied, "Just let it go."
After the encounter, he did not quite feel satisfied with his
answer. When great calamities occur as the world undergoes the
decaying processes, will our bodies still exist? Simply because he
was not pleased with his reply, "Just let it go," the
eighty year old Chao-ch’u put on his shoes and journeyed over
many miles to seek the answer. Later, people would often refer to
this episode affectionately as follows, "For the one sentence
of ‘Just let it go,?the monk traveled over thousands of
mountains." Dear friends, are there not many people who have
had their lives changed because of a few words from their parents,
friends or loved ones? Sometimes, a few words of encouragement can
lift us up from the depths of depression. At other times, a few
words of denouncement can sink us into the pit of pain. "Kind
speech" is one of the Four Bodhisattva Persuasive Actions; we
should speak kind words frequently. The use of kind words reflects
well on us and is a form of generosity toward others.
E.
How a Thought Can Change One’s Life
Life
can be changed by a person, a dollar, an event or a word. A
thought can also turn us one hundred and eighty degrees. A thought
can enable one to become a sage or remain an ignorant fool. It can
make a person reach all corners of the universe, from heaven to
hell. Thus, it is extremely important to focus one’s mind and
practice right mindfulness.
Mr.
Feng-hsi Cheng, one of the ten most outstanding youths in Taiwan,
was handicapped from birth. He used his hands as feet and was the
subject of ridicule of his young ignorant playmates. However, due
to his conviction, "I have to stand up," he was able to
finish his college education. He is our model of someone who
struggles hard to improve himself. Ms. Helen Keller was a blind
deaf mute. She grew up in a world of silence and darkness. In
order to repay her teacher’s patience and mentoring, she worked
incessantly to improve herself and became a respected and
courageous individual. Although she could not speak, she was
nevertheless able to tour the world giving speeches through the
use of sign language. With her speeches, she raised the world’s
consciousness on the plight of the disabled. Royalty and world
leaders were honored to hear her "speak." Helen Keller,
with her endless efforts, brought hope and light to millions of
blind and deaf people. She became a symbol of hope for the
unfortunate!
Throughout
Buddhist history, innumerable masters were able to endure all
kinds of hardships just because of a single thought of devotion.
They dedicated their lives to spreading the Dharma. In the Tang
Dynasty, there was the legendary Venerable Hsuan-tsang. As a young
monk, he realized there was a shortage of translated Buddhist
scriptures in China, so he developed the thought of making a
pilgrimage to India to bring more Buddhist scriptures back to
China. Because of this thought, he traveled to India and lived
there for eighteen years. He brought back numerous sutras and
became the renowned "Master of the Tripitaka." His idea
changed his life and opened a new chapter in Chinese Buddhist
history. His contribution was a bright spot in history and his
impacts are forever timeless.
The
Venerable Chien-chen of the Tang Dynasty was deeply impressed by
the sincerity of student monks who came from Japan to China to
learn about the Dharma, and consequently his thought of bringing
Buddhism to Japan was born. During the course of twelve years and
seven attempts, he grew older and became blind, but he would not
give up his idea. After many countless hardships, he finally
succeeded in reaching Japan to promulgate the Vinaya there. Even
today, the Japanese methods of constructing houses are styled
after the Chinese, and Japanese customs closely resemble the
Chinese ones. Chopsticks usage and agricultural methods such as
sowing and transplanting were introduced by the Chinese. Venerable
Chien-chen was credited with bringing the Chinese way of life to
Japan, and he was honored as the "Father of Japanese
culture." The one thought of spreading Buddhism to Japan
opened up a new path for him, helped to develop Japanese Buddhist
culture, and altered the lifestyles of the whole country. The
Master’s exemplary act of "never forgetting your initial
determination to attain enlightenment," gave us a whole new
dimension in understanding the phrase "missionary
courage."
II.
What Controls Destiny?
We
lead different lives with dissimilar circumstances. Sometimes,
when we witness other’s success, we will inevitably think of our
misfortunes. We become discouraged and complain, "It is all a
matter of timing, luck, and destiny." When we are melancholic
about our misfortunes, we put the blame on others, on gods, and
complain about divine arrangements. In reality, our destinies are
not in others?hands. What then controls destiny? It is
ourselves. Yet, how do we actually control our own destinies?
A.
Habits control destiny
There
is a Buddhist saying, "Defilement is difficult to sever; the
force of habit is even harder to change." Bad habits cause us
endless miseries for now and for millenniums ahead. Habits can
influence our lives. When our deep-rooted habits develop into
habitual forces, they become obstacles to our enlightenment. A
person with a hot temper often yells at others. If this becomes
habitual, he will not have many friends that he can draw upon to
help him and thereby diminishing his chances to succeed. Some
people are addicted to gambling and indulge in extravagance. They
squander their family fortune, break up their own families, and
destroy their own lives. Others like to lie and cheat; they betray
others?trust. Although they may be able to scheme some
temporary gratification, they will become isolated, as no one will
trust them.
Some
of today’s juvenile delinquents actually come from well-to-do
families. They develop bad habits and actually consider stealing
as a hobby. They even proceed to rob and kill others. Not only do
they hurt the welfare of others, they also wreck their futures.
Bad habits are like narcotics; before long, they have perverted
our souls, corrupted our lives, and destroyed our happiness. How
can we not be careful!
B.
Superstitions Control Destiny
Although
we may think that superstition is a unique product of Eastern
culture, it is also found in the West. There is a common belief
that Friday the thirteenth is a day that people should not do much
but stay at home. Since thirteen is an unlucky number, Friday the
thirteenth is considered a "Black Friday." Even though
there may be great business opportunities waiting, people may miss
them because of this superstition.
There
are many superstitions in our society. A high rise should not have
a fourth floor because the sound of the number four in Chinese is
very similar to that of the word death, and living on the fourth
floor would bring bad luck to the occupants. Travelers should
never stay in room number nine of a hotel because the Chinese word
nine reminds people of death also. Superstition has other
far-reaching impacts on our lives. Some people read their
horoscopes before doing anything. Is this really reliable?
Although some people pick lucky days for their weddings, their
marriages still end in divorce. Parents want to have the fortunes
of their newborns told. They only feel reassured if their newborns
wear gold and silver charms on their chests and backs to ensure
good fortune. If fortune tellers are so reliable, can they foresee
their own futures? During the Chinese New Year, it is customary to
sweep the floor towards the inside, not the outside, of the house
in the fear that money will be swept away. Some people say
pregnant women should not recite the Diamond Sutra because
the Sutra is too powerful and may cause miscarriages. The Diamond
Sutra is a sacred scripture. Reciting the Sutra will not harm
the baby; it is good "prenatal" education for the baby
and the baby’s wisdom will grow. There is another strange custom
in Taiwan. When a daughter passes away, she can still be married
off. There are many nice young men who would not marry a good
woman but would instead marry a memorial tablet. Superstition is
like a rope that tightly binds our hands and feet until we cannot
move. Superstitious acts are like dark clouds casting heavy
shadows, shrouding the radiance of our true nature and impacting
heavily on our futures.
B.
Emotions Control Destiny
Not
that long ago, newspapers in Taiwan reported on an affair between
Wen-pin Li, the chief of Lu Chou village of Taipai County, and an
actress. Since the case had to be settled in court, a private
emotional dispute became public knowledge. This dispute not only
put a damper on his future but also on the family honor.
Throughout a lifetime, it is usually the pulls and tugs of
relationships that impact one the most. Lots of people ruin their
futures because of rocky emotional relationships. There are
numerous examples of happy families being ruined by infidelity. If
one cannot handle emotions and relationships appropriately, grave
misfortunes will follow in step.
It
is said in the sutra, "One will not be born into the saha
world if one does not have strong passions." Some people can
resist fame and glory, but they cannot free themselves from the
emotional bondages of their family, of their friends, or of their
lovers. They are mired in pain. To free ourselves from these
shackles, we must use the right wisdom and open up our minds. We
should control our passions and not be controlled by them.
C.
Power Controls Destiny
Power
is an important influence in our destinies. People usually want
power right after wealth. There is a saying, "The combination
of wealth and power is like a tiger getting wings." The
desire for power can, however, corrupt our true nature. Too many
people have lost themselves, their most valuable possession, in
the midst of glory and power. After they have a sample of power,
they no longer can taste the true flavor of life. Power changes
our lives profoundly.
Regarding
the control power exerts over our destinies, we can address the
issue in the following areas:
1)
Divine Power:
Some
people have to seek directions from gods for whatever they do, be
it planning for a funeral, a wedding, or other celebrations. They
have to seek divination before they have peace of mind. They do
not care if what they are doing is moral or not, if whoever they
have to deal with is righteous or not. They believe that as long
as the gods will it, it can be done. They blindly follow what they
believe are gods?directions, without thinking anything over for
themselves. They completely rely upon their gods to make decisions
for them. Like the saying, "Care not about the mortals, but
only about divine consent," these people hand over their
lives to their gods with both hands and willingly become their
gods?slaves. This is the utmost folly. According to Buddhism,
even gods cannot escape from the force of karma and the cycles of
rebirths; how then can they have the authority to control our
destinies?
2)
Political Power
Political
power controls the life of the masses. If we open a history book,
we can easily see the disparity between the lives of those who
lived under the rule of a wise and judicious king and those under
a tyrant. When we examine today’s societies, those who live in
open, democratic, and developed countries are much better off than
those living in hellish countries, suffering under despotic,
autocratic, and dictatorial rule. We are very fortunate indeed.
3)
Family Power:
The
encouragement of family members can make a child grow strong and
ensure that the child walks on the path of success. Family
relationships, however, can become excess baggage in a child’s
cultivation. When I was preaching in Penghu thirty years ago, the
niece of a retired mayor gave a very well-received speech on
Buddhism. She was a young girl of about seventeen or eighteen
years of age. She was very attractive and talented. When the
audience saw her great potential, they encouraged her to study in
a Buddhist college to further learn about Buddhism. She replied,
"No, I cannot. Father said that I should stay home to care
for Grandmother." For her grandmother, she gave up the
opportunity for higher education. Twenty years later and under her
tender care, her grandmother passed away peacefully. From a young
girl, she became a middle-aged woman.
A
forty-year-old still has a lot of future left. Some people once
again encouraged her to seize the opportunity to study Buddhism.
She replied hesitantly, "Mother and Father said I should care
for my aging aunt." Another opportunity slipped away. After
another ten years, she was in her fifties, the waning years of her
life. The aspiration and vitality of youth had gone with time. Her
life was sacrificed for the love of family. In our society, many
young talents are stifled by the love of family. Real parental
love gives a child room to grow and to mold his/her future.
Exercising undue control over a child’s life can lead to a life
full of regrets.
4)
The Power of Desires
Desires
can exert a frightening hold on our lives and destinies. Desires
often enslave us and lead us by our noses. When we see others?
big mansions and fancy cars, our greed takes over our thinking.
Even though these luxuries are beyond one’s means, one may
resort to stealing, swindling, robbing and other unlawful means to
pursue such luxuries. Desires can tempt us to break the law and
become a threat to the society. There are numerous crime stories
in newspapers; they are human tragedies of people who have
submitted to the power of their desires.
E.
Karma Controls Destiny
The
greatest power controlling life is karma. Karma is the product of
our acts, including our speech, our thoughts and our actions. They
are collectively called the "karma of the body, mouth, and
mind." It is said that "All good and evil deeds have
their consequences; it is just a matter of time." Karma can
be divided into good or bad karma. We have to face the
consequences of our acts, be they good or bad, when the time
comes. Karma determines destiny without exception. Although karma
controls our lives, we in turn control our karma. If we can modify
our conduct, if we can refrain from evil, and if we can do good,
our destinies will be bright and smooth.
Apart
from good and bad, there are other types of karma. Karma that just
affects a single individual is called "individual
karma," while karma that affects the whole community is
called "common karma." For example, people who are born
and raised in Taiwan have the same common karma. Although everyone
in this saha world has the same common karma, some live in Asia
while others live in America. There are skin colors of yellow,
white, brown, and black. These differences arise because of our
own individual karma. Apart from individual and common karma,
there are also "determined karma" and "undetermined
karma." While some are born into wealth, others are born into
poverty. Which family we were born into is beyond our control
because it has been decided by our determined karma. Our future,
however, has yet to be decided and is called undetermined karma.
Our future will be determined by our deeds of today. Karma has a
great deal of influence on our lives.
Karma
controls destiny, but how does it work itself out? According to
the sutra, it is said that the weightiest common karma will be
actualized first. Karma can also be played out through our habits
or through our strongest recollections. From a time perspective,
some of the karma from our acts of this lifetime will ripen in
this life, while others will ripen in the next life, or even in a
few lifetimes from now. This can be compared to planting fruit
trees. Some fruit trees bear fruit the year we plant the tree,
others bear fruit only after a few seasons. Regardless of whether
we have to wait one, two or several years, if we want to harvest
nice juicy fruits, we have to diligently sow the seeds. Similarly,
if we want to enjoy the rewards of good karma, we have to plant
the seeds of good karma.
III.
How To Change Destiny
Although
habits, superstitions, emotions, power, desires, and karma can
control our destinies, we can still change our destinies. All
these controlling factors, from habits to karma, are nothing but
our own doings. If we can maintain right mindfulness and be
careful in our speech and actions, we can still change a destiny
of misfortune into a life of brightness and beauty. How, then, can
we alter our destinies? What are the methods available?
A.
Views and Perspectives Can Change Destiny
After
enlightenment, the Buddha revealed to us the truth of sufferings
and also taught us the way to eradicate sufferings by following
the Eightfold Noble Path. The most important element of the
Eightfold Noble Path is Right View. Only when we have the right
view do we have a benchmark for the other seven elements. Only
then will we not go astray. Right view means correct understanding
and perspectives. Correct perspective is most critical in
progressing one’s cultivation and building one’s career. It is
also a cornerstone for social progress, economic prosperity, and
world peace. Take the example of Hitler. Although he was an
intelligent man, he lacked the right view and right understanding.
Besides having the ambition to rule the world, he also built many
concentration camps and even found enjoyment in the torture of
millions of the innocent. His corrupt knowledge and evil views
rewrote European history, brought on a great human tragedy, and
also altered the course of German history, which remained
separated into East and West Germany until most recently.
According to Buddhism, someone with shortcomings in his/her
behavior is corrigible; however, someone with evil views can bring
great calamities to the society and is much more difficult to
reform.
Although
there are many factors leading to personal success, correct
perspectives are key ingredients. For example, a parent complains
about his lazy son. The son may have no regret at all; instead he
may compound the situation, "You said I am lazy. Okay, I will
become a total failure to get back at you." He gives up and
willfully becomes a failure. Another person, in a similar
situation, will look within and amend his ways. He works hard to
become a success in order to improve others?opinions of him.
Two people, in a similar situation with differing views, yield
totally different results. Taking it a step further, if we are
positive, progressive and optimistic, no matter what obstacles
confront us, we will fight to tread a new path. We can taste the
joy of living in the midst of sorrow. However, if we are passive,
regressive, and pessimistic, our outlook will be gray and
miserable. To such a person, life is superfluous. From this, we
can see how our views and perspectives can alter our lives and
destinies. A generous person will have an enriched destiny; a
miserly person will have an impoverished destiny. If you can look
at the world with compassion, life is joyful, the world is
beautiful, and the saha world is Pure Land. If you look at the
world with hatred, even a pure and cool Buddha Land will be
transformed into a house on fire. For a good destiny, we have to
cultivate a right view and perspective.
B.
Beliefs Can Change Destiny
A
life with beliefs is like a voyage with destination, a journey
with directions. It gives purpose to a task, and helps us to
expeditiously work toward our goal without any wasted efforts. The
power derived from beliefs is like a motor that gives us the
energy to proceed and to change our destinies.
We
cannot overestimate the importance of beliefs, yet beliefs are not
limited to religion. The passion that artists have for their art
is like a belief. They are willing to put out their entire effort
for the creation of a masterpiece. We can open books on the
history of human civilization and read how numerous scholars and
philosophers have dedicated their lives to their ideals and
principles—the numerous schools of thinkers of the Early Ch’in
Dynasty and the recent Russian Nobel Literature Prize laureate Mr.
A. I. Solzhenitsyn are good examples. The legendary General Fei
Yueh of the Sung Dynasty believed in loyalty to his country, and
ultimately he sacrificed his life for his belief. His belief of
"utmost loyalty" to his country changed his life and
became a model of unswerving allegiance in Chinese history. Even
today, he is still worshipped as a folk hero and his influence on
people can still be felt.
A
country’s destiny is determined by the beliefs and principles of
its citizens. If we can all believe in The Three Principles of
People (by Dr. Sun Yat-sen) and work together to build our
country according to its ideals, it will not be long before our
country will become prosperous and strong.
Of
all beliefs, religious belief is the most powerful. With a strong
religious faith, a person can accept the misfortune and duress of
life with grace and ease. Religious faith can give us courage to
endure the most serious setbacks. It opens our hearts and minds to
bear the apparent unfairness in life, and it takes our destinies
to a totally different dimension.
C.
Building Good Causal Relationships Can
Change
Destiny
No
man is an island; we are all members of the society. Our life is
intertwined with the public at large. Our daily necessities are
produced by the cooperation of different levels of society. Our
knowledge is the result of the patient teaching provided by our
teachers at school. Without them, we would remain ignorant. Even
when we finally work in society, we need the help of our
colleagues and the mentoring of our superiors before we can reach
our potential and be able to make a contribution. If we want to be
effective and successful, we need to maintain friendly
relationships with others. In Buddhism, the phrase "building
good causal relationships" means constructing amiable social
connections with others.
The
sutra says, "Before learning the Buddhist teachings, work to
establish good causal relationships with others first." If we
want to build a multitude of good causal relationships with
others, we should be friendly and helpful. With the established
relationships, we will be rewarded with great convenience in doing
any task. Helping others is really helping yourself. When we give
to others, we are actually giving to ourselves. As we all are one,
we should not look at us versus them; it is only
through helping others that we can fulfill ourselves. Thus,
Bodhisattvas look at helping sentient beings as a means of
cultivation. It is through building Dharma relationships with all
sentient beings that Bodhisattvas reach Buddhahood. Building good
causal relationships does not only change our destiny, it is also
an important gateway for entering into the Buddhist teachings. In
our daily lives, a friendly smile, a word of encouragement, a
helping hand, and a sincere concern can all bring great joy to
others and help to strengthen friendly relations. Building good
causal relations broadens our horizon and paves the way for a good
destiny. With such benefits, why should we not do it?
D.
Upholding the Precepts Can Change Destiny
In
addition to views, beliefs, and building good causal
relationships, upholding the precepts can also change our
destinies. Refraining from killing prolongs a short life span.
Refraining from stealing transforms poverty into wealth.
Refraining from sexual misconduct builds family harmony.
Refraining from lying brings a good reputation. Refraining from
intoxicants protects health and our mental faculties. Observing
the precepts can change a life of misery into a happy and healthy
one.
In
the sutra there is a story of how the act of protecting life
altered a destiny. Once, there was a merchant who went shopping in
the market. There he saw a little caged turtle staring at him with
teary eyes. At that very moment, a thought of compassion arose in
his heart, and he decided to buy the turtle. He took the turtle to
the pond and set it free. After a while, when the merchant was out
on business, he was robbed by bandits while traveling on a
mountain road. The bandits took all his money and pushed him into
a lake. Just as he was drowning, he felt a support under his feet.
With the help of this support, he was able to make it safely to
shore. When he stopped to take a look back, it was the little
turtle that he had saved earlier, together with his companions,
coming to repay the merchant for his life. If we can refrain from
killing and protect the lives of all sentient beings, our
blessings will definitely grow.
Everyone
has a destiny. It is controlled by many factors. How can we break
loose of these controls and build our own lives? To do so, we must
have a right view, a strong faith, build a multitude of good
causal relations, and uphold the precepts. In this way, we are not
under the control of our destinies, but can freely master them.
IV.
The Buddhist View on Life and Destiny
Destiny
is such a wondrous mystery. What is the Buddhist view on the
subject then? There are four points to address.
A.
Buddhism Believes Destiny is Not Fixed;
Instead,
It Is Alterable
Although
Buddhism believes in the existence of destiny, it differs from the
pre-determinism of other religions. Buddhism teaches that all
existence arises out of causes and conditions, and that existence
is empty without a separate independent self nature. Thus destiny
is also dependent on causes and conditions, and is without an
independent self nature. We can rely on planting good seeds to
alter our misfortunes. There is a famous tale of a young sramanera
(novice monk) which illustrates this point well.
Once,
there was an old Arhat master. In his samadhi, he saw that one of
his favorite young disciples had only seven more days to live. He
thought to himself, "Why does this good child only have seven
more days to live? This is most unfortunate! I cannot tell him
this. How can he withstand such trauma?"
Early
the next day, the master contained his sadness and asked the
sramanera to come before him, "My good child, you have not
seen your parents for a long time. Go home and pay them a
visit."
The
sramanera, not knowing what was going to happen, felt his master
was acting in an odd manner. Nonetheless, he packed and happily
said goodbye to his master and went on his way. Seven days went
by, and the sramanera had not returned. The Arhat, who had severed
all defilements, still was concerned about the welfare of his
sramanera. He was just grieving the fact that he would never see
his young discple again when the sramanera suddenly returned. The
Arhat was shocked. He held the sramanera’s hand, looked him over
carefully, and asked, "How did you manage to return safely?
What have you done in the last few days?"
The
sramanera shook his head in puzzlement and replied,
"Nothing."
The
Arhat pursued further, "Think carefully. Did you see
anything? Do anything?"
"Oh,
it is coming back to me now. On my way home, I passed by a pond
and saw a colony of ants drowning. So I picked up a leaf and
ferried them all to shore," the sramanera replied earnestly.
His dark eyes gleamed with the light of happiness.
After
the Arhat heard the sramanera, he went into his meditation to see
the destiny of the young sramanera. Not only was he not going to
die a young death, his life was extended to a hundred years. By a
thought of compassion, he saved the ants?lives and changed his
destiny.
Besides
compassion, merits can also change a life from bad to good. Some
people feel that because of their heinous crimes, they are beyond
help and there is no way they can turn their lives around. This is
not the case at all. Buddhism believes that even the gravest karma
can be lessened. This can be compared to a handful of salt put
into a glass of water. The water will be too salty to drink. If
the salt is poured into a basin or a tank of water, it will not be
salty at all. The salt of sins, no matter how strong, can be
diluted by the plentiful water of good merits even to the point of
being palatable. In a neglected field where weeds have grown among
the rice seedlings, if we work diligently to eradicate the weeds,
the rice seedlings will have a chance to grow. Once the rice
seedlings of merit are tall and strong, even if there are a few
weeds here and there, the harvest will still be bountiful. Even
the karma of the most deadly sins can be modified by the strength
of virtues and merits.
One
of the ten great vows of Samantabhadra is to repent all evil
deeds. Repentance is a way to alter our destiny. It will eradicate
the evil karma, giving room for our wisdom and blessings to grow.
Dirty laundry can be cleansed with pure water. A filthy body can
be washed clean through bathing. A sinful mind can be sanctified
with the Dharma water of sincere repentance, returning it to its
original state. There is a saying that, "Repent your old sins
according to your circumstances and conditions, and do not commit
new ones." If we can be sincere and steadfast in our
repentance, we can remove the filth of our defilements and let the
originally pure true nature show through. Repentance is a very
important form of religious service in the Buddhist liturgy. Many
venerables of the past have set examples for us on how to conduct
repentance services. Examples include the Compassion Water
Repentance Service, Emperor Wu’s Repentance Service, and the
Three Modes of Repentance of the Tien Tai School.
Destiny
is not unalterable. It can be affected by compassion, merits, and
repentance. The accumu-lation of merits and virtues can bring a
new life out of the most hopeless situation. On the other hand, if
a person with a good destiny does not know how to treasure it, he
will suffer failures. Just like the saying, "When you live in
safety, watch out for disaster." We should take this to
heart!
B.
Buddhism Regards the Past as Important, but
Places
More Emphasis on the Future
In
Buddhism, the law of cause and effect spans over the past life,
the present life, and the future life. Although Buddhism believes
that our fate is determined by causes from the past, it emphasizes
more what can be done now to build a better future. The past
cannot be changed, and brooding over it does not do any good. The
present and the future are in our hands. If we can make use of the
present properly, a bright future awaits us. Thus, according to
Buddhism, one should not wallow in one’s past regrets, but
should actively pursue an infinitely hopeful future.
How
do we change a life of misfortune into a beautiful future? To do
so, we have to improve our character, have a transformation of
heart, learn to turn around, and make amends. There is a common
saying, "It is easier to move mountains than to change
one’s character." If we can change our entrenched bad
habits, soften our hot tempers, and open ourselves up to others,
our destinies will improve correspondingly. In this modern age of
organ transplants, someone with heart disease can receive a new
heart to enable them to lead a vibrant life. When one’s physical
heart has problems, one has to turn to surgery. When our spiritual
heart is defective, we need to change it into a heart of virtue,
kindness and righteousness before we can have a normal healthy
life.
Character
modification is the prescription for changing our destinies;
repentance and making amends is the medicine for building new
futures. A lot of headaches and sorrows arise because we do not
know how to turn around. We just know how to blindly push forward,
forcing ourselves unknowingly into a small corner. If we can
always save some room to maneuver, to retreat and ponder, we will
find that the world is much bigger and wider than we have ever
imagined.
C.
Buddhism Does Not Encourage People to
Resign
Themselves to Fate, but Teaches
People
to Build Their Own Destiny
In
the midst of misfortune, some people think that their ill fate is
gods?design, and that it is useless to struggle. They became
glum, frustrated and passive. They put their precious future into
the hands of their imagined gods and willingly become enslaved.
Buddhism, however, believes that destiny is within our control.
Nobody, not even gods, can dictate our destinies. We are our own
masters; we are the architects of our own future. The Buddha is a
good example that we can emulate.
Before
achieving Buddhahood, the Buddha was a prince enjoying
unparalleled worldly pleasure and respect. He was not satisfied
with the palace lifestyle and refused to be a mediocre ordinary
person. He relinquished his fame, wealth, family, and loved ones.
He chose to seek the path of truth on his own, and in so doing, he
built a boundless life for himself. The Buddha’s enlightenment
has also opened a new door for all sentient beings seeking a right
happy future for themselves.
Human
destiny is not fixed and unchangeable. Heaven cannot turn us into
a saint, nor can it make us become lowly and humble. It is said
that, "There is no natural Sakaymuni Buddha." All saints
and sages accomplished their merits on their own accord. If we
work diligently, the life of wisdom is just ahead of us.
D.
Buddhism Not Only Encourages Us to Be
Content,
but Also Hopes that We Can Improve
the
Future
Confucius
once said, "It was only when I was fifty that I knew what
heaven had planned." If a sage like Confucius would see the
truth of the universe only after he had reached mature middle age,
we can understand that it is not an easy task to accept life as it
is. Buddhism takes this a step further and teaches us that in
addition to accepting life with grace, we must also take steps to
improve our future.
The
Buddha is a great religious teacher with concerns for all beings.
He is also a courageous and moral revolutionary. The Buddha openly
protested against the ills of the caste system and taught us how
to eradicate all our spiritual ills. The Buddha’s revolution is
achieved not by hurting others, but by self-reflection. The
Buddha’s revolution is not aimed externally, but instead
internally, by doing battles with our desires. It is only when we
work courageously to transform ourselves that we can truly have a
bright future.
Most
of us fall into the trap of criticizing others?shortcomings and
excusing our own. The Buddha taught the Dharma for several
decades, giving us numerous methods to wash away the defilements
of our hearts and minds to help us return them to their clear pure
original state—our true nature. The process of cultivation is
none other than the cleansing of our hearts and purification of
our lives. It is just like when the sky is clear, the moon will
naturally shine through. Similarly, when we are purified, it will
be the time that we join the ranks of Buddhahood in the ultimate
emptiness.
Because
of the time limitation, I can hardly discuss all the questions
concerning life and destiny in just two hours. It is our greatest
hope that we can all build a brilliant future for ourselves. May
good fortune be with you. Thank you all very much! |