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Dear
Dharma Friends,
Today
we'll discuss the process of death and what happens after death. It
is not an easy subject. If I were to tell you that there is much
suffering after death, you might be fearful of the pain you have to
face after death. In such a mindset, you cannot comprehend the true
nature of death. If I were to tell you that life after death is
serene and peaceful, you might misunderstand me and think that death
is wonderful and that it is a means to be liberated. Hence, I can
only say this,"Life is not necessarily joyous, and death is not
necessarily miserable."
Once,
there was a rich man who had a son in his later years of life. When
the boy was born, the house was filled with guests who came to
congratulate the new father. Among the guests was a Ch'an master who
was totally unmoved by the festivity around him. Before long, he
even started to cry. The rich man was puzzled and asked,
"Master, is there anything wrong? Why are you so sad?" The
Ch'an master replied sadly,"I cry because you have added
another name to the ranks of death in your family."
An
enlightened person sees birth as an extension of life, and death as
the start of another life. Birth is not just about living, and death
is not just about dying. When we look at birth and death as one,
what is there to rejoice over or to grieve about?
When
we see someone who is one hundred years old, we often congratulate
him by saying, "May you live to be one hundred and
twenty." Every year, on Remembrance Day (September 9th,
a holiday in Taiwan), the government honors local elders and
celebrates their longevity. Let us think about this for a moment. Is
the occasion of someone reaching the age of one hundred and twenty
really a cause for celebration? If a man were to live to be one
hundred and twenty, his one hundred-year-old son might one day
become sick and pass away. One after another, his eighty-year-old
grandchild and his sixty-year-old great-grandchild might also pass
way. This old man could no longer enjoy the happiness of spending
time with his grandchildren. As he lived through the death of his
children and grandchildren, he was left all alone. In a person’s
life, there is nothing harder to bear than the death of a child. So,
longevity does not necessarily mean happiness. Often, with longevity
come loneliness, helplessness, and physical debility.
Just
as we should not be obsessed with longevity, we should also not fear
death. The mentioning of death often provokes many frightful images
in people. In Chinese culture, the dead are often portrayed as being
punished, as having to climb mountains of knives or being drowned in
pots of boiling oil. If we can really understand death, we will see
that dying is not unlike getting a passport that allows us to travel
to another country. How free! Death is a path that we must all
travel. How can we face death in such a way that we feel prepared
and not overwhelmed? To do this, we must understand death, the
nature of which I would like to discuss with you in the following
four sections.
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The
Moment of Death and the State of Death
Though
we all have lived and died through countless rebirths, none of
us can recall the experience of death. We do not know what death
is really like. According to the sutras, when we die, we are
still fully cognizant of all that are going on around us. We may
hear the calm voice of the doctor announcing our death or the
sound of our family grieving. We may still be able to see people
gathering around our body, trying to move our body that is now
empty of heartbeats and breathing. We may still worry about the
many things that still need to be completed. We may feel
ourselves moving among our family and friends, wanting to tell
them what they should do. However, everybody is overcome with
grief, and no one is able to see or hear us.
In
the Reader's Digest, there was once an article about one man's
near-death experience. One day while he was driving, he had a
severe accident; the car was totally demolished, and he was
killed on the spot. When the ambulance, paramedics, the police,
and his family arrived on the scene, his consciousness had
already left the body, and he felt himself floating in the air.
He could hear over the din a group of people arguing about how
the accident happened. So, he went over to the police officer
and tried to tell him what actually happened. But the officer
could neither hear nor see him. None of the others took notice
of his presence nor could they see him. At this time, he only
had his consciousness and was no longer in possession of his
body. He finally became aware that he was floating outside his
body, looking at his own body like an onlooker. He then found
himself passing, at an incredible speed, through a long, dark,
and narrow tunnel.
Another
person spoke of his near-death experience when he suffered a
severe head injury and was brought back from the brink of death.
He said, "I remember my head went 'boom', and I lost
consciousness. Afterward, I just felt warm, comfortable, and
peaceful." This is because once one's consciousness leaves
the body, the consciousness is no longer constrained and can
therefore feel a level of comfort and serenity that it has never
before experienced. Another person also has this to say of his
near-death experience: "When I was dying, I had an
extremely good, wonderful, and peaceful sensation." Another
man described his experience this way: "I felt I was as
light as a feather. I was flying freely toward a world of
brightness!" Death is not as chilling and ghastly as we may
have imagined.
In
the sutras, it is written that our life in this world is
cumbersome and clumsy, not unlike a tortoise that is weighted
down by its heavy shell. When we die, we are able to get rid of
this burden and transform an existence that has been confined by
the limits of the physical body. However, when we are faced with
death, most of us still try to hold on to the seven worldly
emotions and the six sensual desires. We still cannot let go of
our sons, daughters, grandchildren, or our wealth. We do not
want to die and cannot accept death gracefully. We think of
dying as a painful experience, like tearing the shell off of a
living tortoise. Buddhism does not share this view of dying.
Buddhism teaches us that when we die, we are liberated from this
body, and we feel extremely free and easy. It is like the relief
of putting down a heavy piece of baggage. How light and free it
is!
Whether
we are smart or slow, good or bad, we all have to face death.
Death is not a question of if, but a question of when and how.
Even a powerful emperor like Emperor Chin-shih, who united the
whole of China and became its first emperor, could not find any
means to prolong his life. The mythical Peng Tsu might have
lived to eight hundred years, but cosmologically, his life span
was as short as that of an insect which lives only from morn
till night. All beings that live must, without exception, also
die. The difference lies only in the circumstances of death. The
sutras divide the circumstances of death into four categories.
1.
Death upon exhaustion of one's life span
This
is what is called dying of old age. It is like a flickering
flame that dies out naturally when its supply of oil is
exhausted. We all like to live a nice long life, but a human
life span has its limits. Life continues only with every breath
we take, but as soon as we stop breathing, we die and are
returned to the soil. There is a saying which goes like this:
"Some only live from dawn till dusk. Others are born in
spring or summer and die in autumn or winter. Some live for ten
years, or a hundred, or even a thousand. Though we may live for
a short or long time, is there really much difference?"
What this says is that our life span has a limit, and no one can
escape this reality.
2.
Death upon exhaustion of one's merits
It
is said in the sutras, "Humans do not understand life and
death; human eyes do not discern [karmic] merits and
demerits." Life is like an air bubble on the surface of
water; when the air inside the bubble dissipates, the bubble no
longer exists. After a rich man has squandered his wealth, he
becomes poor. Similarly, when we have exhausted our merits,
death will soon be knocking on our doors.
3.
Death caused by accidents
This
is what we call "premature death," which means that
one dies when one is not supposed to. One may be killed in a car
accident, ambushed in a war, murdered by an enemy, or attacked
by a wild beast. Such deaths are sudden and unexpected. There is
a Chinese proverb that is a fitting description of this kind of
sudden death. It goes like this: "As long as one continues
to breathe, possibilities abound. When death comes, everything
comes to a standstill."
4.
Death at will
The
three circumstances of death described above are unpredictable
and uncontrollable. On the contrary, death at will is without
uncertainty and can be planned. In Buddhism, this is often
referred to as "living and dying at will," and there
are many great masters and Buddhist sages who can be born and
die at will. They are not controlled by birth and death for they
are totally in tune with the coming together and the breaking
away of causes and conditions. Master Tao-an of the East Chin
dynasty is a perfect example of such great masters. He was in
total control of the passing of his life. On February 8th
of the twentieth year of the Chien-yuan era, he assembled his
disciples at the great hall of the Wu-chung temple in Chang-an.
After praying and paying respect to the Buddha, he calmly told
his disciples, "I am going to leave now! All of you should
continue to spread the words of the Dharma and wake the ignorant
up from their delusion."
Everyone
was shocked and pleaded with the master, "Teacher, you are
so healthy and strong. You should live for a long time to
continue the work of the Buddha. How can you stop and leave us
now? It is time for lunch; please have lunch first."
Tao-an
answered, "Good, I'll have a little bit of lunch."
Having said this, he ate his lunch as usual. After lunch, he
returned to his room to rest, and he passed away while resting.
Master Tao-an died at will, completely free of pain and
suffering. If we practice the Dharma diligently, we can become
free of karma, the force that binds us to death. We, too, can
become enlightened and enter nirvana.
Now
that we have discussed the circumstances of death, let us turn
our focus into another aspect of death. What are the sensations
of death? The sutras tell us of three sensations experienced in
death. They are:
1.
The imbalance of the great earth element: When one dies of a
disease of the body, one feels a sinking sensation as the body
feels like a big piece of land sinking into the ocean. Slowly
and gradually, the body is immersed and the person feels
suffocated. The sensation associated with this kind of death is
described as "the great earth element being taken over by
the great water element."
2.
The imbalance of the great water element: When one dies of
circulatory diseases, one initially has a sensation of being
submerged in water, feeling wet and cold. Later, this gives way
to a burning sensation, and the person feels very, very hot. The
sensation associated with this kind of death is described as
"the great water element being engulfed by the great fire
element."
3.
The imbalance of the great fire element: When one dies of
pulmonary diseases, one feels a burning sensation, like a
wildfire burning at dusk. Then the body feels a biting pain as
if being blown into pieces by strong gusts and being scattered
about like ashes. The sensation associated with this kind of
death is described as "the great fire element being
swallowed by the great wind element."
We
will next turn our discussion to what it is like immediately
after death and before our next rebirth. The sutras tell us that
because our body is transformed from a finite and bounded form
to a limitless and formless state when we die, the way we feel
immediately following death is not all bad. This may seem a bit
surprising, but there are three good reasons to explain this.
1.
The limit of time and space: When we are alive, we are limited
by time and space. We cannot travel simply by willing to be at a
certain place, and we cannot revert the aging process that the
passage of time brings upon us. Upon death, [and before our next
rebirth,] we are liberated from the limits of the physical body,
and our true nature can move about freely through the three
realms of existence.
2.
The burden of the body: It is said in the Dharmapada, "The
physical body is the cause of all the sufferings on earth. The
sufferings of hunger and thirst, hot or cold, anger and fear,
lust, desires, hatred, and tragedy—all these stem from the
existence of the body." When we are alive, we spend a lot
of time taking care of our body. When we are hungry, we have to
eat; when we are cold, we have to put on more clothing. When we
are sick, we have to endure the pain. If we pause for a moment
and take stock, we will notice that a lot of our concerns do
pertain to the body. After death, the consciousness is no longer
constrained by the confines of the body and all the problems
associated with a physical body also vanish with it. There is no
more hunger or sickness; a huge burden is lifted from our
shoulders.
3.
The supernatural element: While we are alive, our faculties are
limited by our body. After death, we are no longer bound by the
laws of physics. We will be able to see things that cannot be
detected by the human eye. We will be able to hear sounds that
cannot be heard by the human ear. We will be able to float
freely in the air, as the force of gravity does not apply to us
anymore. In this state, walls will not be able to stop us, and
we will be able to travel simply by willing it.
Death
is not an end; it is not a finality. On the contrary, it is the
beginning of another new existence. When we die, the physical
body ceases to function, but the consciousness lives on. During
the time after death and before the next rebirth, the
consciousness is in a state referred to in Buddhism as the
"intermediate being" state. Depending on the
cumulative karma from previous lives, an intermediate being will
be reborn into one of the six realms. Once reborn, all memories
of past lives will be lost. This is called the "confusion
of rebirth." Thus, we cannot recall any memories of our
past lives, and when we are reborn in our next life, we will not
recall any of the memories of this present life. A poem written
by Emperor Shun Chin says it well, "Before I was born, who
was I? After my birth, who am I? If this grown man is me, then
who is the fellow after death?"
Actually,
it is not important for one to know one's past or future lives.
From the Buddhist teachings, we learn that one never dies. What
dies is the physical body, a combination of the four great
elements. While the physical body dies, the consciousness
continues without interruption. When we learn that the physical
body is as lasting as a water bubble, then we begin to see the
illusiveness of the world around us. We can then accept death
without reservation.
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Judgement
After Death and the Next Rebirth
We
often think of the departed and wonder what kind of situation
they are in. In Chinese Buddhist culture, it is customary to
pray for the dead when we celebrate a new year or at various
holidays. It is all very well if this is done out of concern and
respect for our departed parents or loved ones. Most people,
however, have the misconception that when their parents pass
away, they become ghosts in hell, and so they often have prayer
services for their parents hoping that their parents will rest
in peace. This is actually quite disrespectful of their parents,
for only those who have committed grave transgressions will be
reborn as hungry ghosts or hellish beings. Does it mean that we
think of our parents as less than virtuous? Why can’t we
suppose our deceased parents have gone to the heavenly realm, or
are reborn in the Western Pure Land of Ultimate Bliss?
Many
religions believe that when we die, we will be judged on how we
have led our lives. Chinese folk religion believes that after
one dies, one appears before the Yama King, who will pass
judgement on us. Christians believe that when we die, we will
appear before God, who will decide if we should be welcomed into
heaven or condemned to hell. Buddhists believe in judgement
after death, too. The difference is that we will be judged, not
so much by the Buddha, the bodhisattvas, or the Yama King, but
by our own karma. The collective good and bad karma of our past
actions will determine in which realm of existence we will be
reborn and the conditions in which we will be reborn. In the
Buddhist teachings, we learn that our happiness or misery is not
controlled by deities, but is in our own hands.
Where
does one go after death? Some people believe that death is the
final chapter of one's life and there is nothing after death,
let alone that one will be reborn. To them, life is short and
fragile. Because of their view about death, they look at life
with skepticism and anxiety. Instead of treasuring life and
making the best use of it, these individuals look at life as a
means to indulge in pleasures and satisfy the senses. As they do
not look at life and death in the context of the Law of Cause
and Effect, they are willing to do everything, legal and
illegal, to further their own personal goals. Such a view about
death, and therefore about life, is erroneous and can lead us
astray. Although Christians differ from Buddhists in their way
they look at how judgement is metered out, they also believe in
the existence of heaven and hell and that there is life after
death. In Buddhism, we believe that after we die, we will be
reborn into one of the six realms of existence. In fact, there
is a verse which can help the living relatives of the deceased
to assess in which realm their loved ones will be reborn. It
goes like this, "The enlightened emerge from the head, and
heavenly beings rise to the heaven through the eyes. Humans
emerge from the heart and hungry ghosts from the stomach.
Animals leave from the knees and hellish beings from the
feet." What this verse means is this: The last part of the
body to remain warm indicates the realm of rebirth for the
deceased. If a person dies, and his feet are the first to feel
cold and the head is the last place to remain warm, this means
that the deceased has attained the holy fruit of enlightenment.
If the eyes are the last parts to remain warm, this means that
the consciousness has left through the eyes and one is reborn in
heaven. If the heart is the last part of the body to remain
warm, one will be reborn as a human. If the belly remains warm
the longest, one has fallen into the hungry ghost realm. If only
the knees remain warm, one will be reborn as an animal. If the
feet remain warm at the end, one has fallen into hell.
Which
realm of existence will we be reborn into? How is this decided?
This all depends on our cumulative good and bad karma of our
past actions, just like this saying: If you want to know about
your future life, all you have to do is reflect on your present
life. There are three kinds of karmic forces which determine the
realm and the conditions of our next rebirth. These karmic
forces are shaped by:
1.
The relative weight of our good and bad karma: The way how this
karmic force works can be likened to how a bank auditor goes
through the accounts of bank customers; those who owed the most
money must be pursued first. When one dies, the relative weight
of the good and bad karma will determine the person’s rebirth.
A person who has done a lot of good deeds will be reborn into a
good realm, while a person with a lot of bad karma will be
reborn in one of the three suffering realms. The principle
behind this is as simple as the saying, "Good begets good;
ill begets ill."
2.
Our habits: In Buddhism, we believe that a person's habits can
affect his or her rebirth. If one has the habit of chanting the
name of Amitabha Buddha, one’s mind is most likely to be on
Amitabha. If this person meets with an accident and remembers to
chant the name of Amitabha Buddha at the moment of his death,
then this one utterance can help him to be reborn into the
Western Pure Land of Ultimate Bliss.
3.
Our thoughts: A person's rebirth is closely linked to his or her
daily thoughts. If a person is dedicated to the ways of the
Buddha, then he or she will be reborn into a pure land. If a
person is committed to going to heaven and practices
accordingly, the person will be reborn into the heavenly realm.
Thus, in our daily practice, it is important to discern the
kinds of thoughts on which we anchor our mind.
No
matter if it is the weight of our karma, the force of our
habits, or the power of our thoughts that directs us to our next
rebirth, we should always hold the right thought, practice good,
and avoid inflicting harm. This way, we do not need to fear
neither judgement nor death.
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Burial
Customs And The Way to Look At Death
Different
cultures have different ways of attending to the body of the
dead and varying burial customs. Some of the different ways of
preserving the body include freezing, dehydration, dissection,
or mummification. Some people bury the dead in the ground while
others cremate them. Some people practice burials at sea; others
observe open burials.
The
way Buddhists attend to the dead is largely similar to some of
the cultures described above, with two major distinctions.
First, Buddhists advocate the practice of not moving the body
until eight hours after death. Second, Buddhists recommend that
we should not cry loudly next to the body, as our cries will
disturb the dead.
Why
should we not move the body until eight hours after death?
Actually, there is a scientific basis to this Buddhist custom.
After the lungs have stopped breathing and the heart has stopped
beating, the nervous system may still continue to function.
Also, some awareness may still be left in the person’s
sub-consciousness. Though the person may be clinically dead, the
person is not yet completely dead. Therefore, when someone
passes away, we should not move the person regardless if the
person is lying down, sitting, or half-reclining on the bed. If
we try to move the body, we may be causing the deceased
discomfort who will in turn be resentful and angry. Since the
state of mind of the deceased can influence his or her rebirth,
it is advisable that we do not move the body for eight hours
after death.
In
Buddhist literature, there is a story about how disturbing the
body of the dead can lead to some unintended, often unfortunate,
consequences. Once a king, who was a devout Buddhist, passed
away. The royal family gathered around the body and took vigil.
It so happened that a mosquito landed on the nose of the king.
One member of the royal family tried to shoo the mosquito away,
but missed and ended up slapping the king. The king was very
annoyed and anger rose in him, causing him to be reborn as a
python.
There
is another reason why we should wait eight hours before moving
the body of the dead. It is possible that when one does sitting
meditation, one may enter a state of meditative concentration in
which the pulse becomes almost undetectable. To others who are
not familiar with the practice of meditation, the person in
meditative concentration may appear dead. There was a story of
an old monk who entered meditative concentration during one of
his sitting meditation practices. When his young disciple felt
his pulse and discovered that he was not breathing, he thought
the monk had passed away. So, he had the body cremated. When the
old monk came out of meditative concentration, he could not find
his body. Later, people in the temple could hear the monk
calling out day and night, "Where is my house? Where is my
house?" People in the temple were unnerved by his crying,
and they asked a good friend of the monk for help. The friend
arrived in the temple and sat down quietly. When the old monk
called out looking for his house (i.e. his body), his friend
remarked loudly, "Just go. Why do you still want to be
bothered with the house?" When the old monk heard this, he
instantly attained enlightenment and never looked for his house
again.
In
the old days when there was no accurate way to ascertain if a
person had died, this Buddhist custom of not moving the body of
the dead for eight hours was a safeguard against mistakes. In a
book titled The Truth of Death, there is a chapter about a man
who was mistakenly taken for dead. Now, it was a Chinese custom
to collect the bones of the deceased a few years after his or
her passing. Many years passed, and the family decided it was
time to open the coffin and pack up his bones. When they opened
the coffin, they were horrified to find his head had turned and
his limbs were bent in a fetal position. The family inferred
that they had mistaken him to be dead when he had just fainted.
What a horror it must had been when he woke up and found himself
in the coffin. Thus, the Buddhist custom of not moving the body
of the dead for eight hours is not without reason. It also
allows the family a time to calm down and the dead a moment of
peace and quiet.
During
the eight hours of the waiting period, it is best if the family
helps the deceased by chanting the name of the Buddha. In this
way, the deceased can rest his or her mind on the name of the
Buddha as he or she makes the journey to another rebirth. We
should remember not to cry out loud near the deceased. If we
cannot control ourselves and must cry, we should do so away from
the deceased. Although the body may be stiff and cold, the
consciousness may still be lingering. Our grief can cause a lot
of heartache for the deceased and become a hindrance for the
deceased to move on to another rebirth.
Actually,
is it necessary for us to grieve over the death of a person? We
can think of dying as going away for a vacation, and we can
rejoice for the happy and pleasant trip waiting for the
deceased. When our loved ones pass away, we can think of them
going to heaven or becoming a buddha. We can think of dying as
moving to the Pure Land of Ultimate Bliss, a land where
suffering is nowhere to be found. Is this not wonderful? In
Buddhism, we look at death as the beginning of a new life, like
a chrysalis metamorphosing into a beautiful butterfly, or a
chick breaking out of its shell. Why do we, who are alive, try
to hold on and feel such sorrow for those who die?
As
for funeral arrangements, Buddhism supports cremation. It is
both convenient and sanitary, especially in densely populated
areas. Unlike a burial in the ground, cremation does not require
much space; it is also relatively inexpensive. I remember an
elderly monk once said to me, "After I pass away, please
throw my ashes into the ocean for the fish and shrimp. This way,
I can build some good causal relationships with the creatures of
the sea." This is such a free way to look at life and
death—a stark contrast to the egocentric tendency most of us
have. Some people are very selfish and greedy. When they are
alive, they want to acquire this plot of land or that plot of
land for themselves. When they pass away, they want to compete
with the living for the best and most spacious burial ground.
How ridiculous!
Some
of you may say that a Buddhist funeral is dignified, but overly
simple. How do we show our love for the deceased if we do not
have an elaborate ceremony or do not bury the dead in an elegant
gravesite? I guess the answer to this question really has to do
with one's view of death. If we can let go of life and death, we
will not be restricted by social customs concerning what is
appropriate for funeral arrangements. Chuang-tzu, a famous
ancient Chinese philosopher, was one who did not feel restricted
by social customs. When he was dying, his disciples gathered to
discuss his funeral arrangements. Chuang-tzu, who overheard the
discussion, laughed and said, "The heaven and earth are my
coffin, the sun and moon are my treasures, the stars are my
gems, and I have the whole world to accompany me in my burial.
Are these not enough? Is there anything more grand?"
The
disciples were in disbelief and answered, "We cannot do
that. If we leave your body out in the open, the crows and
eagles will come and peck at your body. It is better if we use a
suitable coffin."
Chuang-tzu
smiled and said, "What difference does it make? If you
leave my body out in the open, the crows and eagles will come
and peck at my body. If you bury my body in a coffin, the ants
and maggots will still come and feed on my flesh. Why do you rob
the crows to feed the ants? Why are you so unfair?"
It
is not enough just to have proper funeral arrangements; we
should also have the proper perspective about death. If we can
cut back on an elaborate funeral arrangement and use the money
for charity, we can help the deceased to leave his or her love
behind for the living. If circumstances allow, we should not
hesitate to participate in organ donation programs to save the
lives of those in need. When we have the right perspective about
death, we will then be able to handle funeral arrangements with
wisdom and in such a way that both the living and the dead are
helped.
How
do and don't Buddhists look at death? Buddhists do not look at
death as annihilation or eternal sleep. Buddhists look at death
as moving from one house to another or from one environment to
another. In the sutras, there are many similes about death.
1.
Death is like being born again: Death is the beginning [of
another life]; it is not an end. The process of death can be
likened to the making of oil from sesame seeds or the making of
butter from milk.
2.
Death is like graduation: A person's life can be compared to a
student’s education in school, and death is the graduation.
When we graduate from school, the grades we receive depend on
how good a student we have been. Similarly, when we die, the
circumstances into which we are reborn depend on the good and
bad karma we have accumulated.
3.
Death is like moving: When there is birth, there is death. Death
is like moving out of an old house into a newer house.
4.
Death is like changing clothes: Death is like taking off old,
worn-out clothes and putting on new ones. When we understand
that all experiences of life are floating clouds passing before
our eyes, we will then see that the body is nothing but an
article of clothing.
5.
Death is renewal: Our body experiences metabolic processes every
second. New cells are created when old ones die. The cycle of
birth and death is like the process of creating new cells to
replace old ones.
When
we have the right perspective about death, we will not be
fearful of death. What should concern us is not when we die, but
what follows after we die. Most of us, when we are alive, can
just think of enjoying ourselves and having a good time. We
spend our time going after fame and fortune, without a clear
view of where we are heading. Without a clear sense of purpose
and direction, life is without meaning. What is fame and fortune
when we lay dying on our deathbeds? When we know how to live our
life, then we know how to handle our death. Confucius once said,
"If one does not understand life, how can one comprehend
death?" We should not be consumed with the fear of dying,
which in itself is a physical process. What is more tragic is
living our lives in delusion and ignorance; we may be alive in
body, but dead in spirit. For this reason, I have chosen to
speak about death. I hope that our discussion today can help
each one of us to wake up from the nightmare of death. The
urgent task at hand is to see life and death in the context of
impermanence, suffering, and emptiness. If we do, we will be
able to find meaning in life and death.
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Unusual
Deaths and Extraordinary Deaths
Some
of you may ask this: How can death be wonderful and extraordinary?
If we pause for a moment and think through this carefully, we will
discover that the notion of a wonderful death is not at all
far-fetched. When we have a correct understanding of the Buddha's
teachings, we will see through the cloak of mystery about death and
be totally at peace with both life and death. The Ch'an master Shan-chao
of Fen-yang said it well, "One lives for all beings and dies
for all beings."
There
is a wonderful story about the way in which Shan-chao passed away.
When Shan-chao was alive, there was a powerful magistrate by the
name of Lee Hou. Lee had always wanted Shan-chao to become the abbot
of Cheng-tien Temple and offered the position to the master on three
separate occasions. When the master repeatedly declined the offer,
Lee was furious. So, he ordered a messenger to go to the master and
personally escort the master to the temple. As the messenger was
about to leave, the magistrate told him explicitly, "Listen
carefully, if you do not come back with the master, your life will
not be spared!"
The
messenger was petrified. He went to the Ch'an master and begged him
to leave with him for Cheng-tien Temple. When the master learned of
the predicament of the messenger, he realized he did not have much
of a choice. He gathered all his disciples and told them, "On
the one hand, I do not want to leave you all here to become the
abbot of Cheng-tien Temple. On the other hand, if I take you all
along, I am afraid you will not be able to keep up with me."
One
of the disciples came up and said, "Master, I want to go with
you. I can walk eighty miles a day."
The
master shook his head and sighed, "Too slow. You cannot keep up
with me."
Another
disciple called out, "I will go; I can walk one hundred and
twenty miles a day."
The
master also shook his head and said, "Too slow, too slow."
The
disciples looked at each other in puzzlement. They wondered: How
fast can the master travel? At that moment, another disciple quietly
came forward. He bowed to the master and said, "Master, I
understand. I will go with you."
The
master asked, "How fast can you walk?"
The
disciple replied, "However fast you can travel, I can
too."
Hearing
this, the master smiled and said, "Very well, let’s go!"
Smiling
and without so much of a stir, the Ch'an master passed away. The
disciple who had volunteered stood respectfully beside the master
and passed away, too. How carefree it is to leave this world at
will!
The
Ch'an master Te-pu of the Sung dynasty was equally charming when he
passed away. One day, he gathered his disciples around him and said,
"I am about to leave you. Though I am curious about the kind of
funeral arrangements you will prepare for me, I am not sure if I
have the time to come back and enjoy your offerings. Rather than we
all worrying about each other after I depart, why don’t we spend
some time together and enjoy the offerings now."
The
disciples felt their teacher was acting very strangely, but they
dared not disobey their teacher. They prepared the funeral service
and paid their respects to their teacher thinking it was all a joke.
The next day, Te-pu did indeed pass away.
Some
of you may think it is very strange to have the funeral service
before one passes away, but it is actually quite humorous and
practical. There is an old Chinese saying which captures this
sentiment well. It goes like this, "Offering a drop of water to
a person while he is alive is better than offering him fountains of
water after he departs the world." It is better that we are
respectful to our parents while they are alive than to give them an
elaborate funeral service when they pass away.
The
Ch'an master Tsung-yuan of the Sung dynasty also looked at death
without attachment. He was eighty-three when he attained
enlightenment and was neither attached to life nor to death. When he
felt it was time for him to leave this world, he did it with grace
and dignity. He even composed an elegy for himself:
In
this world, none of us should live beyond our time,
For
after death, we all eventually become dusts in the grave.
As
I am now eighty and three;
I
write this elegy to bid my body farewell.
The
manner in which the Ch'an master Hsing-kung passed away is also
legendary. At that time, there was a ferocious bandit by the name of
Hsu Ming. He killed many people and caused a great deal of
suffering. Hsing-kung could not bear to see the villagers suffer, so
he decided to go and plead with the bandit. Though he realized that
his life was in great danger, he had no fear. While he ate his meal
with the bandit, he wrote this elegy for himself:
Faced
with calamity in the midst of upheaval,
I
am a jolly and fearless fellow.
There
is no time more perfect than now,
Cut
me in half if you please.
Hsing-kung's
compassion and courage converted the bandit, and many lives were
saved because of him. Later, when the master realized the end of his
life was at hand, he told his disciples that he wanted to die
floating on the river. His disciples prepared him a tub and punched
a hole at the bottom of the tub. The master climbed in with a flute
in his hand. The tub floated down the river amid the music of the
flute. The master also left behind a poem about why he chose to
leave the world this way. The poem goes like this:
A
sitting or standing death cannot compare to a floating departure.
It
saves firewood and the ground is not disturbed.
Leaving
empty-handed is quite free and joyous.
Who
can understand me? Venerable Chuan-tzu can.
At
the turn of the century, there was a monk in Rangoon, Burma by the
name of Miao-shan. In 1934, Miao-shan became ill with heat stroke
and malnutrition. Huge boils grew on his feet and back. Even so, he
continued to make prostrations to the Buddha on the hot
cobblestones. The boils opened and became infected, with pus and
blood oozing out. He was unfazed by his condition and refused
medical treatment. He did not even want to take a bath, and nobody
knew what to do. On the day of his death, one of his disciples again
suggested that he should take a bath. This time, the venerable
nodded and replied, "I am glad that you asked me to take a
bath; it is time." Having said this, he went into the bathroom
and happily took his bath. The disciple, who was worried about the
venerable, stood by the door and urged the venerable to take a real
good bath to cool off his body. The venerable chuckled and replied
through the door, "I know. I will take a good bath today as
this is my last bath."
Several
hours passed. His disciple could only hear the sound of running
water, but the venerable was nowhere in sight. He pushed the door
open, only to discover that the venerable had passed away. The
venerable was still standing, but his heart had stopped. When we can
let go of our attachments, we will no longer fear death.
There
are many more examples of Ch'an masters dying peaceful deaths. The
Ch’an master Tan-hsia Tien-jan died leaning on his walking staff.
Venerable Hui-hsiang died kneeling down with a sutra in his hand.
The Ch'an master Liang-chieh of the Tang dynasty had complete
control over the timing of his death; he was asked to stay alive for
seven more days and he did. The Ch'an master Yu-an came back to life
after he had been in his coffin for three days. The Ch'an master
Ku-ling Shen-tsan asked his disciples, "Do you know what
soundless samadhi means?" When his disciples answered their
master in the negative, the master closed his lips tightly and died
instantly. The ways in which Pang Yun and his family passed away
were even more varied and interesting. His daughter Ling-chao sat on
her father's chair and passed away, while Pang Yun himself lay down
to die. When his son, who was working in the fields, heard of their
passing away, he put down his plow and died while standing. The wife
of Pang Yun saw that all of them had passed away, so she pushed open
a gap in a boulder and went inside. Before she went into the
boulder, she left behind this verse:
To
die while sitting, lying down, or standing is not unusual
Mrs.
Pang simply let go and departed.
With
both hands she pushed open a seamless rock
And
left without a trace for others to see.
When
we have the wisdom to see through life and death, we, too, can pass
away as painlessly and effortlessly as some of the Ch'an masters we
talked about today. With birth comes death. Whether we are Buddhists
or not, we still have to face death one day. Hopefully, with the
Buddha's teachings, we can understand life, and therefore death. We
should not be fearful of death, for death is nothing but a natural
phenomenon. When we are prepared in life, then we are hopeful of
what follows after death.
We
make provisions for everything in life. We keep a flashlight in case
of emergency or blackout. We have an umbrella for rainy days. We
pack food for long trips, and we change our wardrobes for the coming
of a new season. Likewise, we should prepare ourselves spiritually
for the day when death comes knocking on our door. Not only should
we rest our hopes in the present, we should also be mindful of life
after death. Amid the impermanence of life and death, we should keep
in mind that the Dharma-body is eternal and the wisdom-life is
timeless. Our buddha nature is everlasting!
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