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December
1999: Finding Peace
Within the Quiet Practice of Buddhism Grows as People Seek
to Satisfy Their Spiritual Hunger
THE
ORANGE COUNTY REGISTER
* Story appeared in the ACCENT section on page E01
* ID: 1999361005
* Edition: MORNING
* Correction: FINDING PEACE WITHIN THE QUIET PRACTICE OF
BUDDHISM GROWS AS PEOPLE SEEK TO SATISFY THEIR SPIRITUAL HUNGER.
Monday, December 27, 1999
Byline:
Credit: BARBARA KINGSLEY: The Orange County Register
After
Lehnert Riegel's wife died of breast cancer more than a year
ago, he started to ask questions. Not of doctors, of fate. He
found himself wondering why this had happened to her, to him. He
worried about his future and longed for life as it was in the
past, wiped clean of grief.
The "moderately inactive" Episcopalian began searching
for a way to make peace with unanswerable questions. His seeking
led him to Buddhism. Now, he doesn't ask questions; he doesn't
worry. He meditates.
"It kept me from asking the question that shouldn't be
asked, like, `Why me? ' " says Riegel, 61, a Fountain
Valley husband and father. "Only a little child believes
that, because they ask the question, there should be an
answer." More and more Americans are lighting incense and
sitting in zazen, especially in Southern California, where
increasing numbers of Internet-cruising, cell phone-toting,
world-weary people are finding the peace they seek in the quiet
practice of Buddhism.
"There's an ever-greater number of opportunities to be
taken away from the present," says James Shaheen, publisher
of Tricycle: The Buddhist Review. "You feel like an errant
pinball. The faster pace, the fewer the opportunities one has to
think." Eastern spiritual paths like Buddhism, and its
cousin Zen, urge adherents to focus deeply on their daily
activities through meditation and "mindful action."
"When people have gotten everything they want and they're
still not happy, which happens a lot in Orange County,"
says Deborah Barrett of the Zen Center of Orange County,
"they'll come to Zen." Buddhism and Zen, once seen as
foreign and cult-like, draw followers who may risk scorn from
friends and family as they question their own Christian
upbringing.
"My grandfather would roll under his tombstone thinking of
me going to a Buddhist temple," says Cheryl Svensson, 52,
of Corona del Mar. Many use Buddhism, which emphasizes the mind,
to gird their own traditional religious practice.
Buddhism by design has no hierarchy, so few numbers are
available. But signs of growth are clear: The number of
English-language Buddhist teaching centers nationwide has grown
from 429 to more than 1,166 in the past decade. New York-based
Tricycle has grown from 5,000 readers in 1991 to 65,000 today.
The number of practicing Buddhists is small compared with other
religions, but sociologists estimate that as many as 1 million
Americans who grew up Jewish or Christian use Buddhist
practices.
Hsi Lai Temple, in Hacienda Heights, draws predominantly
Chinese-speaking people, but classes in English have grown from
six in 1997 to 100 today. The Zen Center of Orange County in
Costa Mesa has grown every year since it was established in
1995, and the largely Japanese-American Orange County Buddhist
Church adds Western worshippers every year.
Certainly, a rash of celebrity Buddhists, such as actor Richard
Gere, have helped place the religion in Americans' field of
vision.
Newly practicing Buddhists say they crave community and inner
peace and are reaching for spirituality that's new to them. THE
PRACTICE Buddhism doesn't claim a deity like God or Allah.
Instead, Buddhists see spirituality in all things. But all
Buddhism turns on meditation _ the practice of stilling the mind
and quieting churning thoughts, the better to see clearly.
It is the primary vehicle for achieving enlightenment.
Buddhists compare the active mind to a muddy river. The water
must be stilled to allow the mud to sink and the water to become
clear. That takes time. People's attention spans are short.
Minds wander. They might be thinking about fighting traffic, or
calling the baby sitter, or what to wear to work.
"We tend to run on automatic, and we tend to run
habitually," says Harry Moock, 82, a Fullerton resident who
attends Hsi Lai.
"One Buddhist told me that your mental process is like a
place full of drunken monkeys. You have to work on that to slow
down and get into that marvelous lake (of meditation). You see
marvelous things that are hard to describe. I see rivers and
lakes. I see my grandchildren in a different light. I see myself
in a different light." THE CONGREGATION
One recent Sunday morning, Moock and about 70 or so nascent
Buddhists chant prayers before three massive gold Buddhas in the
main hall at Hsi Lai Temple. They close by bowing three times:
For the conditions of past and present lifetimes that contribute
to this moment, for the teacher of the order and for the Buddha
awaiting to be awakened in all beings.
Later, adherents break into groups for `Dharma' classes on
Buddhist teachings. The uninvestigated mind, or Samsara,
students learn, is the cause of all suffering. Every day must be
seen as a precious opportunity to embark down a new path, to
reveal the Buddha mind.
Gordon Gibb and wife Madelon Wheeler-Gibb lead the classes. The
pair from Monrovia were longtime ministers with the United
Church of Christ before devoting their lives to Buddhism. The
couple say they found a deeper spirituality in the Eastern
practices and came to question the "one true faith"
doctrine preached in some Christian churches.
"Many times, Christians claim exclusivity, that Jesus
Christ is the exclusive way to attain eternal life,"
Wheeler-Gibb said. "In an international and culturally
diverse community, that just doesn't make sense to
everyone." Some Hsi Lai devotees drive hours to the Sunday
services. While some Buddhists shake their heads at the high
ceremony of Hsi Lai, with its gleaming Buddhas and emphasis on
ritual, many find it comforting. To Craig Brandau, 43, a Venice
High history teacher, the ceremony helps make the abstract real.
"It feels good coming here," he says and adds with a
smile: "The big Buddhas in the front are pretty cool."
Many are stirred by Buddhism's insistence that individuals are
responsible for their own bliss. "People talk about
dysfunctional families or victimization; that won't work with
Buddhism," Wheeler-Gibb said. "People find it
tremendously empowering, knowing they themselves are
responsible. " That's what drew Harry Moock to the
practice. Moock discovered Hsi Lai and Buddhism when he was
looking for a speaker for the "Body, Mind and Spirit
Connection" senior education class that he teaches at
California State University, Fullerton.
Moock, a World War II veteran, saw his first Buddhist Temple in
Burma when he drove up in his jeep. "The ancient cults of
the Indians and the Chinese, it's not all foolishness,"
Moock says.
"They have derived practices and rituals that we would be
smart to do." Moock only recently found the time to shine a
light on his soul.
"You open yourself up to an inner dialogue. Not chatter. I
realize I am not alone. I have helpers, tranquil inner thoughts.
"When you're busy going down the river in that kayak,
jockeying left and right, you don't have time. You got to answer
that phone.
Life goes by, and you have not developed the internal
skills." Cheryl Svensson, 52, married and with four
children, started practicing yoga in the 1970s. Her yoga
dovetailed into an appreciation for Buddhism that contrasts with
her Lutheran upbringing.
"I don't have to believe in Jesus Christ to be saved,"
Svensson says. "But I have no problem going to a Lutheran
service. I believe in the basic principals. I don't get caught
up in the finer details. It doesn't hurt bowing three times to
Buddha; it's more a reflection of who I am and who I can be. My
older brother would say, `You're bowing to an idol. ' But we all
are the same." ZEN FOR LIFE. The Zen Center of Orange
County in Costa Mesa is austere. One Sunday evening, about 20
gathered on cushioned mats in a room bare except for Chinese
calligraphy on the wall. The students had been sitting virtually
all day in zazen kai, or prolonged meditation.
Their purpose: to mark the anniversary of the Buddha's
enlightenment by trying to further their own.
Zen Buddhism, the Japanese derivative of the Chinese practice of
Cha'an, is more a practice than a belief system. "It
doesn't have anything to do with belief in God or Buddha,"
says Deborah Barrett, who runs the Zen Center. A hospice
chaplain, she has been practicing Zen for 20 years.
"That throws people," she says. "We're used to
religious rules where everything is defined. One reason Buddhism
is growing is that it has fluidity." Zen Buddhists use
meditation to help them to be "present" and attentive
with the same heightened awareness they would have watching a
spectacular sunset, or talking with a dear friend for the first
time in years.
"We know what it's like to be in the moment," Barrett
says.
"It's not forced. But it's not so easy that we can just
say, `be here and now. ' ... Many people don't want to spend
that kind of time and energy to learn that. It takes time. But
that's like saying, `I want to be a concert pianist, but I don't
want to practice. ' "
Each morning, Lehnert Riegel sits down to meditate in his late
wife's old room in his Fountain Valley townhouse.
He drives twice a week to the Zen Center of Orange County for
lectures and meditation sittings. The practice has changed his
life.
"Buddhism offers me the chance to be spiritual without
being nonmaterial," Riegel says. "The here and now is
very much here and now. It doesn't go away and it's not an
illusion. That's how Buddhism treats life: It is real. It's
about life as I'm living it on the spot: What is happening right
now, not what I wished happened 10 months ago or what I hope
will happen next year." Buddhism, he says, helped him
realize suffering has a purpose, and his suffering has helped
him discover a more loving nature.
"I feel more compassion with what is happening with other
people," Riegel says. "It goes beyond compassion. I
can feel another person's suffering." (SIDEBAR)
TENETS OFBUDDHISM Buddhism maintains that life is filled with
suffering _ illness, old age, fear of death, separation from
love, being saddled with something one hates.
Buddhists hold that our selfish desires bring dissatisfaction
and may be obtained at the expense of others. People tend to see
life through the narrow prism of the self: "How does this
affect me?" Buddhism teaches that people can free
themselves of the demands of the ego by following the
"eightfold path" of right knowledge, aspiration,
speech, behavior, livelihood, effort, mindfulness and
absorption.
This path can lead to peace, and ultimately, for some, Nirvana,
an exalted state of enlightenment.
When Buddha appeared to followers after six years of fasting,
study and meditation, he didn't declare himself a god or a
prophet; he merely told his followers, "I am awake."
Buddhists emphasize focusing the mind through meditation.
Meditation and "mindful action," they say, help us
eliminate the demands of the self and to see our
interconnectedness with other creatures.
Buddhists believe the following, printed in Tricycle: The
Buddhist Review: To study the way of the Buddha is to study
oneself.
To study oneself is to forget oneself.
To forget oneself is to be enlightened by everything.
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